Pehea e aʻo ai i nā keiki e hoʻonohonoho i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani?

ʻAʻole ʻike nā keiki i nā mea pono, a me nā mea pono ʻole e hana. Pono nā mākua e aʻo iā lākou i kekahi mau manaʻo kūpono i ka wā nui o kā lākou mau keiki. Nui nā keiki ʻaihue e hoʻolei wale iā lākou i ka papahele i ka wā e pāʻani ai i nā mea pāʻani, a ma hope e kōkua nā mākua iā lākou.hoʻonohonoho i kēia mau mea pāʻani, akā, ʻaʻole ʻike nā keiki he mea hewa loa ka hoʻolei ʻana i nā mea pāʻani. Akā, pehea e aʻo ai i nā keiki e hoʻonohonoho i kā lākou mau mea pāʻani ma hope o ka pāʻani ʻana i nā mea pāʻani? Ma keʻano laulā, hoʻokahi a ʻekolu mau makahiki he makahiki gula ia o ka ulu ʻana o ke ola. Hiki ke hoʻohana ʻia kēlā me kēia ʻike i ke ola ma ke ʻano he mea aʻo. ʻO ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā mea pāʻani ʻo ia kekahi o nā wahi hoʻonaʻauao maikaʻi loa.

Pono nā mākua e ʻike i kēlāʻokoʻa nā ʻano pāʻani like ʻole. ʻAʻole kūpono ka hoʻohui ʻana i kāu mau mea pāʻani āpau i ka hoʻokumu ʻana i ka manaʻo o ka hoʻopau pololei. ʻOiai ua hoʻomaikaʻi mālie nā kānaka i nā koi o nā mea pāʻani,ʻoi aku ka nui o nā mea pāʻani houua komo i ka makeke.Nā hale pāpani lāʻau, mea pāʻani ʻauʻau plastic, abacus keiki laau, a pela akunā ʻano mea pāʻani a paumakemake nā keiki. E hoʻopiha ʻia nā lumi o kēlā me kēia keiki i nā mea pāʻani like ʻole, kahi e hana mālie ai nā keiki i kahi manaʻo hewa. ʻO ka mea mua, hiki iā lākou ke hoʻolei i nā mea pāʻani ma nā wahi āpau, a hiki iā lākou ke loaʻa i nā mea a lākou e makemake ai. I kēia manawa, pono e ʻae i nā keiki e hoʻonohonoho i nā mea pāʻani i ʻike lākou ua kūʻai lākou i nā mea pāʻani he nui, a ʻaʻole e pāʻani pinepine ʻia kēia mau mea pāʻani. I ka manawa like, i ka maka o nā keiki, he paʻakikī loa ka hoʻonohonoho ʻana i nā mea pāʻani, no laila pono nā mākua e aʻo iā lākou, a alakaʻi iā lākou ma ke ʻano i hoʻolālā ʻia.

Hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻomākaukau i nā pahu waihona maʻalahi no ka waiho ʻana i nā mea pāʻani i hoʻohuli pinepine ʻia e nā keiki, a laila e hoʻopaʻa nā keiki i nā kiʻi lepili nani i loko o nā mea pāʻani. Inā ʻoi aku ma mua o hoʻokahi keiki i loko o ka ʻohana, hiki iā ia ke hoʻohana iā ia ma ke ʻano he mahele o ka hana a me ka launa pū ʻana, e pale aku ai i nā hoʻopaʻapaʻa pono ʻole.

Malia paha ua noʻonoʻo mua nā mākua he maʻalahi e hoʻopau i ke ʻano hoʻopau, ʻo ia hoʻi, E ho'āʻo e kūʻai i nā mea pāʻani me ka nui a i ʻole ke ʻano like ʻole. Akā makemake nui nā keiki e loaʻahe hale pepeke laau nui or he mea pāʻani alanui kaʻaahi nui. Ināʻaeʻia nā kūlana, hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻokō pono i nā makemake o nā keiki, a laila e hoʻokaʻawale i kēia mea pāʻani i loko o kahi pahu.

No ka hoʻomau hou ʻana i nā mea pāʻani, hiki i nā mākua ke ʻae i nā keiki e hoʻonohonoho a hui pū iā lākou ma ka home a hoʻololi iā lākou i kēlā me kēia pule ʻelua. E ʻike ʻoe ma o kēia hoʻonohonoho ʻana, hoʻomaikaʻi ʻia ka nānā ʻana o nā keiki i nā mea pāʻani. Me ka liʻiliʻi o nā mea pāʻani, e maʻalahi hoʻi i nā keiki e hoʻomaʻemaʻe iā lākou iho. Inā hiki i nā mākua ke hoʻonui i nā lula opāʻani me nā mea pāʻani, e like me ka koi ʻana i nā keiki e "hoʻomaʻemaʻe i kahi mea pāʻani ma mua o ka pāʻani ʻana me kahi mea pāʻani ʻē aʻe", a laila hiki i nā keiki ke hana maʻalahi i ka ʻohi ʻana i nā mea pāʻani i ka pāʻani.

He mea kōkua nui ka hoʻomohala ʻana i kahi manaʻo hoʻopuka pāʻani maikaʻi no nā keiki. Inā makemake ʻoe i ka ʻike hou aku, hiki iā ʻoe ke kipa i kā mākou pūnaewele.