Mawu Oyamba: Nkhaniyi ikufotokoza maganizo osatha amene zidole zimabweretsa kwa ana.
Kodi munaonapo mwana akutola ndodo pabwalo n’kuigwiritsa ntchito mwadzidzidzi kugwedeza lupanga pomenyana ndi gulu la zilombo zolusa? Mwina munaonapo mnyamata wina akumanga naye ndege yabwino kwambiribokosi la zomangira za pulasitiki zamitundu. Ndizo zonsemasewera amaseweraoyendetsedwa ndi malingaliro.
Ana amatha kupanga dziko lawo, kumene angakhale ngwazi, mafumu, anyamata a ng'ombe kapena ovina. Kulingalira ndiye chinsinsi chotsegula chitseko cha maiko awa, kuwalola ana kuti achoke mu zenizeni kuti alowe muzongopeka. Koma izi zonsesewero la nthanondi zonamizira makhalidwe abwino pa thanzi la ana? Sikuti ndi wathanzi, m'pofunika mwamtheradi. Ichi ndi chinthu chofunika kwambiri kuti ana azichita nawo masewera ongoganizira komanso opanga zinthu. Ngati mwana wanu sanaseweremitundu yosiyanasiyana yamasewera, kungakhale chizindikiro choopsa cha kukula kwake. Ngati mukuda nkhawa, chonde funsani dokotala wa ana, mphunzitsi kapena katswiri wa zamaganizo.
Kuwonjezera pa kupanga masewero awoawo, ana angaphunzire zambiri mwa kuwerenga kapena kupempha makolo awo kuti awerenge nthano. Ziwembu ndi anthu a m’nthano zimawapangitsa kuganiza. Adzagwiritsa ntchito malingaliro awo kuti adzipange okha gawo la nkhaniyi. Amatha kusewerasewero la dokotala, sewero la apolisi, sewero lanyamandi masewera ena kuti apititse patsogolo malingaliro awo.
Zambiri mwa nkhanizi zili ndi chinthu chimodzi chofanana, ndiko kuti, zovuta zina. Moyo suli wabwino nthawi zonse, pali zovuta, ndipo nthawi zambiri otchulidwa amayesa kuthana ndi mavutowa ndikugonjetsa zoyipa. Choncho, pamene ana amayesa kutsanzira kapena kufuna kukhalangwazi mu nthano, makolo angaphunzire ndi kupita patsogolo limodzi ndi ana awo.
Ndiye nthawi yotsatira yomwe mukuyang'anachidole chatsopanokwa mwana wanu wamwamuna kapena wamkazi, kuwonjezera pamidadada yomangira, magalimoto othamanga, zidole ndi zinazidole wamba, mutha kugwiritsanso ntchito sewero kuti mulimbikitse malingaliro awo. Mutha kudziyerekeza kukhala njira yosangalatsa, yachilengedwe komanso yathanzi kuti ana azifufuza dziko lawo ndi ena. Ndi njira yabwino kwa iwo kuphunzira ndi kukula mu masewera. Komanso, ngati mwaitanidwa kuti mutenge nawo mbali pachiwonetserocho, chonde musazengereze. Mutha kutsata ana anu kuti alowe nawo masewera ongoyerekeza m'njira yotetezeka komanso yathanzi!
Masewera amtunduwu ali ndi zabwino zambiri:
1. Ana atha kudziwa ndikumvetsetsa za akulu akulu kudzera mu sewero. Pochita masewero, ana adzakhala ndi maudindo osiyanasiyana, monga amayi, dokotala, ozimitsa moto, apolisi apamsewu, ndi zina zotero, amaphunzira kutsanzira makhalidwe a anthu pazochitika zosiyanasiyana ndikumvetsetsa malamulo a chikhalidwe cha anthu.
2. Idzathandizanso ana kuphunzira kumvetsetsa mmene ena amamvera ndi mmene ena amawaonera ndi kukulitsa chifundo. Mu masewera osamalira mwana, mwanayo adzakhala mayi. Kuchokera pamalingaliro a "mayi", ndisintha matewera kwa mwana wanga. Mwana wanga akadwala, ndimapita naye kwa dokotala. Pakati pawo, mwana wanga waphunzira chifundo ndi chisoni.
3. Masewera otere amathandiza ana kuti azitha kuyanjana ndi anthu komanso kuchita masewera olimbitsa thupi. Zomwe ana amachita pochita masewero onse ndi zochitika zamagulu. Ana amaphunzira kuyanjana ndi ena mwa kubwerezabwereza mobwerezabwereza, kulimbikitsa pang’onopang’ono ndi kuwongolera luso lawo locheza ndi anthu, ndi kukhala munthu wocheza nawo.
Nthawi yotumiza: Feb-23-2022