Niba ujyanye umwana wawe mububiko bwibikinisho, uzasangaibikinisho bitandukanyeni igitangaza. Hariho amajanaibikinisho bya pulasitiki n'ibitiibyo birashobora gukorwa mubikinisho byo kwiyuhagira. Ahari uzasanga ubwoko bwinshi bwibikinisho bidashobora guhaza abana. Kuberako hari ibitekerezo byose bidasanzwe mubitekerezo byabana, ntibikomeraubwoko bwibikinisho bihari. Niba ubateze amatwi, uzasanga buri mwana ashobora kuba umukinyi wogukinisha.
Mubyukuri, ababyeyi bagomba gushyigikira byimazeyo abana babo mugukora ibikinisho bonyine kugirango ibitekerezo byabo bikoreshwe byuzuye. Ibi ntibishobora gukoresha ubushobozi bwabana gusa, ahubwo binatuma bamenya ko bashobora gukora ikintu kidasanzwe kwisi kandi bakibonera igikundiro cyibyaremwe. Abana benshi bajugunya ibikinisho murugo byerekana mubyukuri ko abana batabakunda kuko bazi ko ibi bikinisho bishobora kugurwa namafaranga. Ariko niba igikinisho cyakozwe nabo ubwabo, abana bazagikunda cyane, kuko ibi nibisubizo byabo.
Nigute washishikariza abana kurema?
Ababyeyi bagomba gukomeza imyitwarire yihangana niba bashaka ko abana babo bagaragaza ibyifuzo byabo nibitekerezo byabo. Ku bana, ndetseagace k'ikarito y'amabaraibyo bigoramye ni akazi kabo, ababyeyi rero ntibagomba gutekereza ko bakora ibibazo. Ku rundi ruhande, ababyeyi ntibashobora kwemerera rwose abana babo kurangiza imirimo mu bwigenge. Abana bari munsi yimyaka itanu ntibashobora kwigenga imirimo isaba intambwe igoye. Kubwibyo, ababyeyi bakeneye kuba hafi.
Abana bamaze kurangiza akazi kabo, ababyeyi ntibakeneye gusa gushima ubushobozi bwabana bato, ahubwo banashakisha uburyo bwo gukina iki gikinisho hamwe nabana. Muyandi magambo, intego nyamukuru yaabana bakora ibikinishoni Kuri Gukina.
Birumvikana ko abana bakunda ibishya kandi ntibakunda ibya kera, bityo ababyeyi ntibashobora gukomeza kubasubiramo akazi. Kugirango uhuze n'ibiranga abana bakura, ababyeyi barashobora gutanga bimwe bikwiyeibikoresho bikinisha bikungahayekandi utange amabwiriza yoroshye kubikorwa byo gukora.
Ababyeyi benshi bazaba bibaza ko bakeneye kujya mububiko bwibikoresho kugirango bagure bimweibikoresho byo gukora ibikinisho? Iyo urebye neza, uzasanga n'impapuro zangiza zishobora gukoreshwa mugukata imiterere myinshi. Niba ufite ibirenzehoibiti byoroshyemurugo rwawe, urashobora kureka abana bawe bakabasiga irangi, hanyuma amaherezo ugashiraho bimweibikinisho by'ibiti bya cube or inzandiko zimbaho.
Muri rusange, ababyeyi ntibakeneye gusa guha abanaumubare ukwiye wibikinisho byubureziguteza imbere ubwonko bwabo, ariko kandi bakeneye kureka abana biga gukura mubyiza. Niba kandi ushaka ko abana bishimisha binyuze mumikino no guhanga, nyamuneka witondere kurubuga rwacu. Isosiyete yacuibikinisho byigisha ibitintishobora kureka abana bakina gusa, ariko kandi banatezimbere ibitekerezo byabo kugirango bagire agaciro gashya.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Nyakanga-21-2021