Iriburiro: Iyi ngingo itangiza ibitekerezo bitagira ingano ibikinisho bizana kubana.
Wigeze ubona umwana afata inkoni mu gikari agahita ayikoresha kugira ngo azunguze inkota kugira ngo arwanye itsinda ry’inyamaswa zangiza? Birashoboka ko wabonye umusore yubaka indege nziza hamweagasanduku k'amabara yububiko bwa plastike. Byoseimikino yo gukinagutwarwa no gutekereza.
Abana bafite ubushobozi bwo kurema isi yabo, aho bashobora kuba intwari, abamikazi, inka cyangwa ababyinnyi ba ballet. Ibitekerezo nurufunguzo rwo gukingura umuryango wiyi si, reka abana bave mubyukuri mubitekerezo. Ariko ibi byoseuruhare rw'umuganino kwitwaza imyitwarire myiza kubuzima bwabana? Ntabwo ari ubuzima bwiza gusa, birakenewe rwose. Iyi ni intambwe ikomeye kubana kwishora mumikino itekereza kandi irema. Niba umwana wawe atarakinnyeubwoko butandukanye bwimikino, birashobora kuba ikimenyetso kibi cyo gukura kwe. Niba ufite impungenge, nyamuneka hamagara umuganga w’abana, umwarimu cyangwa psychologue.
Usibye gukora amashusho yimikino yabo, abana barashobora kwiga byinshi mugusoma cyangwa gusaba ababyeyi babo gusoma imigani. Imigambi ninyuguti mugani bituma batekereza. Bazakoresha ibitekerezo byabo kugirango bigire inkuru. Barashobora gukinauruhare rwa muganga, uruhare rwa polisi, uruhare rw'inyamaswan'indi mikino yo kunoza ibitekerezo byabo.
Inyinshi murizi nkuru zifite ikintu kimwe zihuriraho, ni ukuvuga ubwoko runaka bwamakuba. Ubuzima ntabwo buri gihe ari bwiza, hariho ibibazo, kandi inshuro nyinshi abantu bagerageza gutsinda ibyo bibazo no gutsinda ikibi. Kubwibyo, iyo abana bagerageje kwigana cyangwa bashaka kubaintwari mumigani, ababyeyi barashobora kwiga no gutera imbere hamwe nabana babo.
Ubutaha rero urimo gushakishaigikinisho gishyakumuhungu wawe cyangwa umukobwa wawe muto, usibyeinyubako, imodoka zo kwiruka, ibipupe nibindiibikinisho bisanzwe, urashobora kandi gukoresha uruhare rwo gukangura ibitekerezo byabo. Urashobora kwitwaza ko ari inzira ishimishije, karemano kandi nzima kubana bashakisha isi yabo nabandi. Nuburyo kandi bwiza bwo kwiga no gukura mumikino. Kandi, niba utumiwe kwitabira imikorere, nyamuneka ntutindiganye. Urashobora gukurikira abana bawe kugirango binjire mumikino itekereza muburyo bwiza kandi bwiza!
Ubu bwoko bwimikino bufite ibyiza byinshi:
1. Abana barashobora kwibonera no gusobanukirwa isi ikuze binyuze mukina. Mu gukina, abana bazagira uruhare mu mibereho itandukanye, nka nyina, umuganga, fireman, abapolisi bo mu muhanda, nibindi, biga kwigana imyitwarire mbonezamubano mubihe bitandukanye no kumva amategeko mbonezamubano.
2. Bizafasha kandi abana kwiga kumva ibyiyumvo byabandi bakurikije abandi kandi bagatsimbataza impuhwe. Mu mukino wo kwita ku mwana, umwana azagira uruhare rwa nyina. Nkurikije “mama”, nzahindura impapuro zumwana wanjye. Igihe umwana wanjye arwaye, nzamujyana kwa muganga. Muri bo, umwana wanjye yize impuhwe n'impuhwe.
3. Imikino nkiyi ifasha abana gukusanya uburambe bwimibereho no gukoresha ubushobozi bwimibereho. Ibyo abana bakina mukina ni ibintu byose byimibereho. Abana biga kubana nabandi binyuze mubisubiramo inshuro nyinshi, buhoro buhoro bakomeza kandi batezimbere ubushobozi bwabo, kandi babe umuntu usabana.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Gashyantare-23-2022