Intshayelelo: Eli nqaku litshayelela intelekelelo engapheliyo eziziswa yimidlalo ebantwaneni.
Ngaba wakha wambona umntwana echola intonga eyadini aze ngequbuliso ayisebenzise ukutshangatshangisa ikrele ukuze alwe neqela lamarhamncwa? Mhlawumbi ukhe wambona umfana esakha inqwelo-moya esemagqabiniibhokisi yeebhloko zokwakha zeplastiki ezinemibala. Konkeimidlalo yokudlala indimaeqhutywa yintelekelelo.
Abantwana banamandla okwenza ilizwe labo, apho banokuba ngamaqhawe, amakhosazana, amakhwenkwe eenkomo okanye abadanisi be-ballet. Intelekelelo sisitshixo sokuvula ucango lwezi hlabathi, vumela abantwana ukuba baphume kwinyani baye kwiphupha. Kodwa zonke eziintsomi ukudlala indimakunye nokwenza ngathi ulungile kwimpilo yabantwana? Ayinempilo kuphela, iyimfuneko ngokupheleleyo. Eli linyathelo elibalulekileyo lokuba abantwana babandakanyeke kwimidlalo yentelekelelo neyilayo. Ukuba umntwana wakho akadlalangaiintlobo ezahlukeneyo zemidlalo yokudlala, isenokuba luphawu oluyingozi lokukhula kwakhe. Ukuba unexhala, nceda uqhagamshelane nogqirha wabantwana, utitshala okanye isayikholojisti yomntwana wakho.
Ukongeza ekwenzeni eyabo imiboniso yemidlalo, abantwana banokufunda okuninzi ngokufunda okanye ngokucela abazali babo ukuba bafundele iintsomi. Uyilo kunye nabalinganiswa kwiintsomi babenza bacinge. Baya kusebenzisa intelekelelo yabo ukuze bazenze inxalenye yebali. Bayakwazi ukudlalaIndima kagqirha, indima yamapolisa, umdlalo wezilwanyanakunye neminye imidlalo ukuphucula intelekelelo yabo.
Uninzi lwala mabali anento enye afana ngayo, oko kukuthi, uhlobo oluthile lobunzima. Ubomi abusoloko bulungile, kukho imingeni, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi abalinganiswa bazama ukoyisa ezi ngxaki kwaye boyise ububi. Ngoko ke, xa abantwana bezama ukuxelisa okanye bafuna ukubaamaqhawe kwiintsomi, abazali banokufunda baze benze inkqubela kunye nabantwana babo.
Ngoko kwixesha elizayo xa ukhangelainto yokudlala entshangonyana wakho omncinci okanye intombi, ukongezaiibhloko zokwakha, iimoto zomdyarho, oonodoli kunye nezinyeamathoyizi aqhelekileyo, ungasebenzisa umdlalo-linganiso ukuvuselela intelekelelo yabo. Unokwenza ngathi uyindlela eyonwabisayo, yendalo kunye nenempilo yokuba abantwana baphonononge ilizwe labo kunye nabanye. Ikwayindlela elungileyo yokuba bafunde kwaye bakhule emdlalweni. Kwakhona, ukuba umenyiwe ukuba uthathe inxaxheba kwintsebenzo, nceda ungalibazisi. Ungalandela abantwana bakho ukuba bazibandakanye nemidlalo yengqikelelo ngendlela ekhuselekileyo nesempilweni!
Olu hlobo lomdlalo luneenzuzo ezininzi:
1. Abantwana banokufumana amava kwaye baqonde ihlabathi labadala ngokudlala indima. Ekudlaleni indima, abantwana baya kudlala iindima ezahlukeneyo zentlalo, njengomama, ugqirha, umcimi-mlilo, amapolisa endlela, njl., Bafunde ukuxelisa ukuziphatha kwentlalo kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo kunye nokuqonda imithetho yentlalontle.
2 Kwakhona kuya kunceda abantwana bafunde ukuqonda iimvakalelo zabanye ngokwembono yabanye baze bahlakulele uvelwano. Kumdlalo wokunyamekela umntwana, umntwana uya kudlala indima kamama. Ukusuka kwimbono "yomama", ndiya kutshintsha i-diapers kusana lwam. Xa umntwana wam egula, ndizomsa kwagqirha. Phakathi kwazo, umntwana wam uye wafunda uvelwano novelwano.
3. Imidlalo enjalo inceda abantwana baqokelele amava entlalo kunye nokusebenzisa amandla okuhlalisana. Into edlalwa ngabantwana xa belinganisa indima ethile yimidlalo yentlalo. Abantwana bafunda ukuhlalisana nabanye ngokuphinda-phinda, ngokuthe ngcembe bomeleze kwaye baphucule isakhono sabo sokuhlalisana, kwaye babe ngabantu.
Ixesha lokuposa: Feb-23-2022